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Jannat Ara
Jul 31, 2022
In Education Forum
Relationship Dynamics allows the flow of relationships to open up a sincere dialogue . Mr. Xia Huiwen, the founder of "Relationship Dynamics Academy", after years of observation and sorting, found that a real good relationship should be a flow of energy from one side that flows to the other side. From the other side to the original place, or to radiate to other places, and create different energies. He calls the process of flow "relational dynamics" and "dialogue" and "communication" are the basic elements of relational dynamics. "Relationship Dynamics" can help everyone face the difficulties encountered in family, education, gender and even business organization relationships. Xia Huiwen firmly believes that listening, companionship, or asking a good, reflective question is the best way to help people generate positive energy. Photo Credit: Matus LaslofiCC BY-SA 2.0 Photo Credit: Matus LaslofiCC BY-SA 2.0 Restarting the function of family with "dialogue" In terms of "family", in this era of poor environment, parents are facing competition in the workplace, children are facing pressure to go to school, parents and children are busy and lack opportunities for dialogue and in-depth understanding. Family lost its "first line of defense" function. What we really need to do immediately is to let love begin with a "dialogue", so that the two generations can understand each other, the dialogue between the two sides can truly achieve deep communication, and the number list relationship can truly flow. Only by feeling warmth, love and security in the family can we truly generate "dialogue" and communication, and then restart the "family" function. Xia Huiwen once came into contact with a case where the mother thought the child could not accept her discipline and wanted to bring the child to class, but was questioned by the child: "What can I learn in class?" The mother was very distressed and did not know how to answer. Xia Huiwen asked her mother to play the role of a child to imagine the child's state, "Why answer him? If you are a child, what do you think?" I learned a lot, but I won’t tell you, I hope you can feel it for yourself.” Xia Huiwen said that in fact, as long as you really listen to your children’s voice, don’t rush to answer or correct their thoughts, and care about your children’s behavior or behavior with love and curiosity. Only the idea and purpose behind the language can achieve true "communication". With Xia Huiwen's prompts and the guidance of "relationship dynamics", the mother finally successfully opened the dialogue with the child, which also made the family's interactive relationship better. "Natural Development" Accepts Every Difference Another key point is that we must also learn to "Natural Development": accept every difference. Taiwan has long been dominated by utilitarianism, and children who do not follow mainstream values ​​are easily excluded and rejected, thereby suppressing their true self. Many parents, on the other hand, focus only on strict requirements for their children, but do not realize their children's true self and interests. Yiyi expects the child to meet mainstream expectations and standards, but it only makes the child even more unhappy. The child does not know how to communicate with the parents, the parents do not change their own thinking, and the lack of positive interaction between the two sides is likely to cause the child's personality to be distorted as an adult and plant a radical personality factor in the future. Photo Credit: EdwigeCC BY-SA 2.0 Photo Credit: EdwigeCC BY-SA 2.0 We should fully understand that no two people in the world are the same, and everyone is a single independent individual.
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